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You are doing a tremendous job of waiting it seems - keep it up! Last week I wrote about savoring snow and dogs.

[no I am not “eating the dogs” (said in Trump voice 🤣)]

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Doing the best I can. That gave me a good laugh! Savoring snow and dogs sounds wonderful.

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I’m so pleased it’s clear. Bone marrow biopsies can be super painful, I hope that was ok, but either way, the news that it’s clear is everything. Happy December. Xx

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Thank you! The pain I'll take any day if it comes with good news! Happy December to you as well. 🤎

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oh, the waiting! You writing so personally about a really hard thing put a lot of things into perspective for me...I pray you get good news after all of the waiting. I love all of the things you are savoring. Tonight I'm "beeking" by the fire (beeking is a new word I just learned: to bask or warm in the sunshine or before a fireplace, stove, or bonfire). The fire is going, carols are playing, the dogs are wearing sweaters that make me laugh, and the tree is up and lit with white lights. Savoring.

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Beeking just became my new favorite word. It's going to be my word of December for sure. More beeking, less stressing. I'm grateful I could offer perspective in my writing. That is what its all about right? And I must see those dogs in sweaters please.

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I too sat down with family when visiting a few weeks ago to watch The Ministry of Ungentlemanly Warfare — it really was excellent! Transatlantic is a gorgeous miniseries on Netflix with a slightly similar, though less Guy Ritchie vibe if you enjoy the odd show as a distraction.

As for a moment of savouring; today my 14 month old tried to drink water from a water fountain and the look of surprise, excitement, curiosity and focus was something I hope to etch into my mind forever. She was obsessed. Completely soaked her shirt (thankfully we’re in summer) but she was so proud walking into the playground after her little achievement.

Hope the week is full and wonderful and you get good news soon ☺️

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Will check out that series for sure. Thank you for sharing.

The image of your daughter trying to use the fountain gave me a big smile. Thank you for that perfect distraction. 🤎

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Loved your selfie- you look radiant! Your good news is on the way.

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Thank you friend. 🤎

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"The silence is too loud." Your writing is too beautiful. The Santa is too cute. I wish you a wonderful holiday with your family and good news at the end.

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Thank you friend. Your compliments mean the world to me as a writer. I am beyond crazy for that Santa. The dogs, not so much.

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Those raindrops on roses 😍 stunning!! I love all your lists, your designs are my favorite in the world. I too, ask the universe for your tip-top health and wellness this season.

I had a rocky weekend but I found my savoring in Amy Poehler’s MasterClass on improv for life. 🕯️

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Aren’t they so pretty? Thank you, thank you, thank you. I’m sorry you had a rocky weekend. I hope today brought smoother waters.

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I’m anxiously waiting along side you and savoring that you’re home doing all these things this year. I’m also savoring having our college kids home and hearing them giggling in the other room. Love you friend and grateful for you!❤️

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Their giggles are the best. 🤎

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Asking the universe for good news for you! Love your design aesthetic. It feels organic and earthy but light and fresh. I’m a designer too. And since you asked for distractions, I’m sharing my latest article here. My newsletter is named Distracted by Pretty Things (also the name of my design business) and at the end of every article, I include a list of my current distractions. Hope at least one of them helps you ride out the waiting. 💜 https://open.substack.com/pub/distractedbyprettythings/p/how-a-small-gift-loomed-large?r=43tgx8&utm_medium=ios

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Thank you! Loved your distractions, grateful you shared so I could find my way to them. 🤎

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Another great piece. Here is a YouTube channel that makes a great distraction - The Yes Theory. Delightful. https://youtu.be/F5Oox66JIds?si=xP5eOdPl7iFGsd2w

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Thank you Abbey! Off to check out the YT channel you share.

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